130 - Stop the comparison: what if you’re right where you need to be?

Episode show notes

It is normal to compare yourself to others and perhaps feel jealous of them. 

Comparisons can be beneficial at times. They can serve as a guide for progress and act as an inspiration.

But when you become fixated on your flaws rather than your strengths, sitting in self-pity rather than appreciating where you are, then you are focused on the wrong thing.

Understand that wherever you are right now, that’s where you’re supposed to be… And you have the power to always change that.
Understand that wherever you are right now, that’s where you’re supposed to be… And you have the power to always change that.

In this episode, I delve into appreciation vs. self-pity, why comparison is a losing battle, and the power of self-awareness.

  • 00:06 - A little life update

  • 03:38 - Appreciation vs. self-pity 

  • 06:23 - You're exactly where you're meant to be

  • 11:09 - Practicing self-awareness

  • 17:44 - Rule of thumb of comparison

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My name is Emily Elizabeth, I am a life and confidence coach, and I am ready to help you take back your confidence and feel in control of your life.

I love helping women get out of the victim mentality, find their self-worth, and reconnect with themselves so they can not only improve themselves but all their relationships. When I am not creating content for my clients and programs, you can find me on a spontaneous trip with my husband, working out, curled up with my journal, or spending time enjoying the outdoors.

 

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